One day she made the conscious choice to shift her focus from
"What was I thinking"
"What did I learn?"
Only then was she able to turn her regrets in to lessons,
and a sea of calm gave her life brightness and hope.
It doesn't do me or my daughters or my husband or my friends or my family any good for me to mope about actions I've taken or the way things have turned out.
I need to look at a situation, work out what I could do differently if needed/preferred/necessary, and learn from it.